Oh, that not to say you haven't tried. You have. You've tried the traditional ways of meeting new people including that awkward yoga class. You've had more than your fair share of blind dates set up by well-meaning friends, scoured the Internet dating sites and made attempts at the bar scene. The next step is to go out in the world and meet new people outside your immediate social circle – but how?
Glad you asked. We have a few ideas.
Network and Dating
Having a genuine interest in getting to know new people and keeping an open mind while you’re networking might end up being more valuable than you first imagine.
It really is a win-win. First, you will be there for business – an area you are already comfortable with. You will be more at ease. Second, you will be meeting people who share a common ground or goal and who are also at ease. Third, you’re discussing something you are know and are passionate about — which will reveal the authentic you. (Read: nothing is sexier!)
Ask for a Date Like You Would Ask for a Meeting
You encounter someone you think would add something to your next project. You take their card, email them and schedule a meeting. Take that habit and transition it into your dating world. You met someone who you feel a bit more than a passing attraction for. Don't get shy. Make sure your words and actions make it clear to the other person you are enjoying the time you are spending together, even if it is just a weather conversation at the bus stop. Smile, have a back and forth conversation and say “I've enjoyed this. Can we meet for coffee sometime?”
Short and Sweet
Many busy professionals will say that they don't have time to date. That's not true. First dates should be short, sweet and long enough to test if there is chemistry there. A first date is really about determining whether or not you want to see the person again. In most cases, that is decided in less than 20 minutes. A coffee break. That's it.
TIP: If you do want to see the person again, make plans for your second date before you part ways from the first date – that way there is absolutely no confusion about how the date went for either party. It will make the rest of your day a bit easier.
Save Time - Use a Matchmaker
Your time is precious – you shouldn't be wasting it online sorting through hundreds of profiles every night. You should be out meeting amazing, relationship ready people! Let our matchmakers do the work for you. We specialize in setting our clients up on fun, quality first dates with like-minded people. We take care of all of the details – from selecting your matches and giving you a description of who you are going to meet to the reservation – we've got you covered. All you need to do is show up and have fun on your date!
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A professional with an MBA, this curvy lady (30s) enjoys the finer things of life, such as theatre, dancing, travel & wine tasting. Fond of the great outdoors, you can find her camping or hiking Maritime trails. Movies, music & dogs hold a special spot in her heart. She's searching for an educated, professional man in his 40s who loves to travel & hopes to have a family one day.