Open Yourself Up to Intention: How to Find Love When You're Not Looking

Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine who grew tired of the dating scene. Her and three friends were traveling in a pack, visiting bars or attending events that held false promises of her finding her match. It got to the point that she felt like dating was draining her energy and the bonding out of her friendships. It was at this frustrating point that my friend decided she needed to invest in something other than happy hour Mai Tais...

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Create a Ripple Effect to Make Waves in Your Dating Life

We all know that dating is a numbers game and the more you get out and into the mix, the likelier it is you will cross paths with Mr. or Mrs. The One. It's also smart to talk to anyone, anywhere, even if that person doesn't seem to be your type. In short, if you throw a pebble into the dating pool, it can have a significant ripple effect that is sure to benefit your status. A 30-year-old female friend of mine recently met a 60-year-old woman...

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Single & Available? Share It With Your Friends

Many people know exactly what they want from their careers and have a clearly defined set of goals. They aren't afraid to approach the bossman for a promotion or when they are seeking new challenges to expand their skill set. They create vision boards (even if they are only in the minds) of where they want to be in five years. But when it comes to finding a partner, so many of us leave it to chance. What? If you want to turn your dating life around,...

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Refile Your Relationships to Find Love

"That's my neighbor, John." "Rita? Just a girl from work." "He's just a friend." It's human nature for us to label, categorize and slot people into narrowly defined files within our mental relationship Rolodex. Case in point: Actress Cameron Diaz and her current beau, Good Charlotte founder and member Benji Madden, have been friends since the 41-year-old actress was dating Justin Timberlake. The two of them have only recently started dating after...

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Why a Second Chance May Be Your Key to Finding True Love

I'm not going to lie. The end of a date can be a bit awkward. Do you offer them your card and leave the ball in their court? Do you ask for a second date? Do you thank your date for an awesome lunch (brunch, coffee, whatever) and leave it at that? Well, its a bit tricky and it comes down to instincts. At this point of the date, you are in one of three places: 1) Elation: You're excited and want to see them again! 2) Not feeling it: You're convinced...

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