Add Dimensions to Your Relationships Beyond Words

Any good designer will tell you that the key to creating a warm, comfortable room is by adding layers of variation in texture. It's what makes the space interesting. It creates depth. It adds dimensions to your home.

As a matchmaker, I think the same applies to relationships.

Love is a powerful emotion that can be conveyed much deeply through our actions and the little things we do. Add "variation in texture" to your relationship by showing how much the person in your life means to you. Go a step beyond saying the three little words. Remember the song that was playing when you first kissed. Leave love notes on their pillow when you will be away from home.

That same thought, don't get blindsided by someone who says the right words but their actions tell a different story. A guy who tells his girlfriend that he wants to spend more time with her and disappears every weekend to hit the links may not be the ideal mate.

Behavior has to add up. It will reveal a lot.