IJL Toronto Singles Scene

Would You Date You?

Think about it. Would you? This is a very important point. Unless you become the type of person you're looking for, you wont attract the type of person you seek. Have you ever known men or women who aren't necessarily the most handsome or pretty individuals but they never lack dates? What makes them so attractive? You guessed it: self confidence, and it's contagious. It also screams sex appeal. These people are glowing with a bright, friendly, fun attitude, and they have a genuine interest in others. They're happy with who they are and appreciate what they have to offer. This positive energy attracts an abundance of people who want to meet them. Self confidence produces amazing results.

Here's why:

It's sexy!
It allows you to relax and have fun.
It means you take rejection lightly and not personally.
It makes it clear that you are not desperate.
It means you're content with yourself, your looks and your life - which only makes you more attractive.

In order to gain self-confidence, you must first learn how to love yourself. It's important that you recognize and appreciate what's great about you- and accept what's not so great. If you don't love and accept who you are, how do you expect someone else to?